When it comes to raising compassionate, resilient children, stories are some of the best teachers. I believe that books can gently open conversations about emotions, choices, and values, helping children learn how to navigate their world with kindness and joy. As both educators and parents know, children often absorb lessons best through play, storytelling, and imagination. That’s where character education and social-emotional learning (SEL) meet children’s literature. Picture books with relatable characters and simple but profound messages can plant seeds that grow into lifelong habits of kindness, empathy, and happiness. Here are three my books that naturally lend themselves to lessons in character and happiness: How the Cow Jumped Over the Moon This playful twist on the classic rhyme reminds children that perseverance and belief in oneself can make the impossible possible. It opens the door for classroom and home discussions about self-confidence, trying again, and celebrating each small success. Children begin to see that happiness often comes from courage and persistence. SEL Connection: Growth mindset, self-confidence, resilience The Monkeys Who Tried Kindness In this story, monkeys discover the surprising power of kindness. Instead of competing or grabbing, they find that helping and sharing brings more joy to everyone. This tale invites children to reflect on their own choices: What happens when I am kind? How does it make me feel? SEL Connection: Empathy, cooperation, kindness as a daily habit A Boat Full of Animals This lively gathering of creatures is more than just fun—it is a way of developing good habits in children. By assigning specific characteristics to each animal (the cat cleans up after herself, the bird makes sweet sounds, etc.) Children see how they can use those same qualities in their own lives. 30 fun games help fill a boat full of animals... within. SEL Connection: Acceptance, happiness as a habit, self-worth Why These Stories Matter Each of these books opens a pathway for teachers and parents to engage children in social-emotional learning in a joyful, accessible way. Rather than “lessons,” they feel like adventures—adventures that leave children smiling while planting important seeds of kindness, confidence, and worthiness. Whether read aloud in a classroom, shared before bedtime, or used as part of a character education curriculum, these stories make happiness something children can feel, understand, and share. Takeaway: Stories bridge the gap between lessons and lived experience. Books like How the Cow Jumped Over the Moon, The Monkeys Who Tried Kindness, and A Boat Full of Animals remind us that happiness is not only a feeling—it’s a practice, rooted in kindness, courage, and community.
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Long ago I created a book called THE HAPPY BOOK with exercises to promote happiness. Ten-Speed Press Published it. Then, readers of that book requested a children's version. Here is a description of the children's version. Every child wants to feel capable, confident, and happy — and what better way to grow those qualities than through play? A BOAT FULL OF ANIMALS: 30 Games to Develop Life Skills is a delightful and interactive guide for parents, educators, and children to learn important life skills while having fun. The book offers 30 creative animal games that help children develop values, morals, and positive character traits. The concept is simple: each game represents an animal and a special quality it embodies. After each game, children “invite” the animal onto their imaginary boat, adding its trait to their personal collection. By the end of the book, kids will have a boat full of skills, traits, and happiness to carry with them throughout life. How the Games Work In the book, I encourage children to imagine a boat inside of themselves. This could be a schooner, a speedboat, a cruise ship, a tanker, or even an ark. After playing each game, the animal from that game boards their boat, bringing its unique quality along. “By the time they finish all 30 games, each child should be a lighthouse of happiness with a boat full of everything that child needs to keep sailing smoothly wherever he or she may go.” Sample Games 1. The Giraffe Game The giraffe’s most remarkable feature is its long neck — perfect for reaching leaves on top of the acacia trees. This game encourages children to “stretch themselves” by trying new things, taking chances, and expanding their comfort zones. By the end of the day, children imagine their giraffe on board, carrying its adventurous spirit with them. Life Skills Learned:
2. The Dolphin Game Dolphins are known for their joyful appearance and friendly nature. Children are encouraged to smile first, last, and always — spreading a positive attitude and kindness wherever they go. By playing this game, kids experience the magic of a simple smile and learn how it can influence themselves and others. Life Skills Learned:
Here are the Titles of all the Games 1. The Giraffe Game – Stretching Your Greatness Learn to try new things, take chances, and expand personal limits. 2. The Dolphin Game – The Importance of a Smile Practice friendliness and positivity by smiling throughout the day. 3. The Bird Game – Making Sweet Sounds Discover how joy and expression can brighten the world around you. 4. The Cat Game – Cleaning Up After Yourself Learn responsibility and the importance of taking care of your surroundings. 5. The Dog Game – Being a Good Friend Practice loyalty, kindness, and supporting those around you. 6. The Hippopotamus Game – Being Generous Experience giving and sharing with joy. 7. The Monkey Game – Being Helpful Learn to lend a hand and assist others whenever possible. 8. The Bear Game – Going to Sleep Happily Develop good bedtime routines and relaxation habits. 9. The Anteater Game – Telling the Truth Build honesty and trustworthiness. 10. The Zebra Game – Appreciating Differences Celebrate diversity and the unique qualities in others. 11. The Frog Game – The Importance of Sticking to It Cultivate perseverance and determination. 12. The Beaver Game – Working Happily Learn to approach tasks with joy and dedication. 13. The Camel Game – The Importance of Love and Kindness Practice compassion and caring for others. 14. The Octopus Game – Appreciating Others Recognize and value the people around you. 15. The Pig Game – Building a Strong Body Encourage healthy habits and physical activity. 16. The Rabbit Game – Listening and Paying Attention Develop focus and mindfulness. 17. The Penguin Game – The Importance of Good Grooming Learn self-care and personal responsibility. 18. The Duckling Game – Following Directions Build listening skills and discipline. 19. The Opossum Game – Learning Patience Practice waiting, understanding, and self-control. 20. The Horse Game – Appreciating Beauty Notice and celebrate the beauty in the world. 21. The Turtle Game – Finding a Quiet Place Learn to reflect, relax, and find inner calm. 22. The Rhinoceros Game – Setting and Accomplishing Goals Develop goal-setting skills and the drive to achieve them. 23. The Squirrel Game – Saving for the Future Practice planning, organization, and foresight. 24. The Elephant Game – Knowing Your Own Greatness Build self-confidence and recognize personal strengths. 25. The Lion Game – Maintaining a Good Attitude Cultivate optimism and a positive mindset. 26. The Wolf Game – Not Being Fooled Learn discernment, critical thinking, and awareness. 27. The Moose Game – Appreciating Yourself Develop self-esteem and self-love. 28. The Ostrich Game – Learning from Mistakes Understand that mistakes are opportunities to grow. 29. The Kangaroo Game – Giving Support Practice empathy and helping others succeed. 30. The Turkey Game – Being Thankful Encourage gratitude and recognizing the blessings in life. Why This Book Matters Happy children help create happy families, neighborhoods, and even communities. By teaching life skills and positive character traits in a playful and memorable way, A BOAT FULL OF ANIMALS helps children develop essential tools for life while keeping joy at the forefront. This book is perfect for:
Click here to find this book on Amazon. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore all of my children's books. Introduction: Why Helping Children Handle Worry Matters Worry and stress are part of life—even for children. Starting school, facing a big change at home, or dealing with something unique to them can stir up anxious feelings. While adults may see these moments as small, to children they can feel overwhelming. That’s where books can help. Stories give children both comfort and tools to handle emotions. Through characters and simple lessons, kids learn they are not alone, and that they can take steps to feel calm and strong. Below are several children’s books that focus on different situations that commonly cause worry or stress—and show children how to handle them with courage. The Trick to Being Fearless This uplifting book introduces children to the idea that words can change how they feel. Instead of letting fear control them, kids learn that they can use a special “trick” to transform their perception of a situation. By shifting how they think and speak about fear, children suddenly feel powerful and in charge. It’s a joyful lesson that teaches kids: fear is not bigger than they are. (This book is also available in a multicultural version.) Welcome to Kindergarten The transition from preschool to kindergarten is one of the first big steps in a child’s life—and it often comes with nervousness. In Welcome to Kindergarten, children follow along with characters who are also facing the unknowns of a new classroom, new teachers, and new friends. The story reassures children that they are not alone in their feelings, and that school is a place for learning, fun, and growth. By the end, what seemed scary becomes exciting, helping ease that big leap into kindergarten. (This book is also available in multicultural, Spanish, and bilingual versions.) Our Father’s Smile Children with a parent leaving on deployment or for extended time away often experience deep sadness and worry. Our Father’s Smile gently addresses this fear of separation. Through story, children are reminded that even when a parent isn’t physically present, love remains constant. The book gives children comfort and emotional resilience, helping them find smiles, hope, and strength during a time of change. (This is a multicultural book.) Max’s Big Adventure For children with food allergies, traveling or eating away from home can feel scary. What if something goes wrong? What if they can’t enjoy what everyone else does? Max’s Big Adventure follows a child with allergies as he faces these challenges with courage. The story shows children that they can still explore, have fun, and feel safe—even with special precautions. It encourages kids to be proactive and confident, rather than fearful, about their allergies. Why Books Like These Matter What makes these books so valuable is that they don’t just name the fears—they give children a way to face them. Whether it’s a simple phrase, reassurance through love, or practical confidence, each story becomes a tool a child can carry with them.
Parent Tips: Reading to Calm Worry When reading these books, parents can help strengthen the lessons by:
Final Thoughts: Courage Through Story Every child faces worry. But with the right tools—and the right stories—those worries don’t have to take over. Books like The Trick to Being Fearless, Welcome to Kindergarten, Our Father’s Smile, and Max’s Big Adventure offer children guidance, reassurance, and courage. They remind children that fears can be faced, challenges can be managed, and with the right perspective, life can be joyful and exciting—even in the face of worry. These books may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more.
Children are natural storytellers and story-listeners. They love the rhythm of rhymes, the excitement of adventure, and the comfort of happy endings. But beyond the fun of tales and poems lies something much deeper: stories shape the way children understand the world. They give kids a safe space to explore big ideas like honesty, courage, and — most importantly — kindness. One beautiful example is the book The Monkeys Who Tried Kindness. In this story, a pack of monkeys in the jungle is falling apart. They fuss and fight, bite and bicker, and forget how to care for one another. Teenagers act out. Grandparents look the other way. Everyone becomes selfish, fearful, and even sickly. The jungle is turning into a miserable place. They realize that they are in trouble and need to change. They don't know what to do. Then, a small voice calls out: “Kindness.” At first, the monkeys don’t understand. But when they decide to give kindness a try, something extraordinary happens. The jungle changes. The monkeys share, care, and respect one another. Life improves in every way. This playful tale is more than just monkey mischief. It’s a lesson children can take to heart: kindness is powerful. When we treat others with respect and care, we create a happier, healthier world — for everyone. Why Storytelling Works So Well for Kids Stories like this do more than entertain. They:
A Takeaway for Parents and Teachers Children don’t need long explanations about morality; they need stories that bring lessons to life. When kids see monkeys learning kindness, they can better imagine how kindness works in their homes, classrooms, and playgrounds. The Monkeys Who Tried Kindness is a gentle reminder that the simplest ideas often bring the greatest changes. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find The Monkeys Who Tried Kindness and many more of my children’s books, on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page. If you ask kids what their favorite food is, more often than not you’ll hear a happy shout of “Pizza!” And I have to admit—I feel the same way. Pizza is colorful, delicious, and endlessly fun. That’s why I decided to create a children’s book all about it, called I LOVE PIZZA! When I began writing this story, I wanted to capture the sheer excitement children feel when they think about pizza. The gooey cheese, the bright red tomatoes, the smell of it baking in the oven—it’s a feast for the senses. And it’s something children everywhere can relate to. Capturing Joy in a Slice The book begins with the simple declaration: “I love pizza in the morning… Pizza at lunch. Pizza for dinner, and also if there’s brunch.” From there, the narrator’s love for pizza grows bigger and sillier with every page. He imagines being crowned the “Pizza King,” delights in pizza at the pool, and even dreams about eating three pizzas in a single day! Writing those lines made me laugh, and I knew children would laugh right along with me. Humor is such a powerful way to engage young readers, and pizza gave me the perfect subject to play with. The Deeper Layers (Like Toppings!) Of course, as with many of my books, I didn’t want the story to be just about food. I tucked a few life lessons into the fun as well. One of my favorite parts of the book is when the narrator admits that sharing pizza can be difficult—after all, who wants to give up a slice? But then he discovers something wonderful: “Yes, I find sharing my pizza is somewhat of a shame. But then, I end up with more friends than I can name.” That simple truth—sharing leads to friendship—is one I believe children can understand deeply. It’s a lesson wrapped inside laughter, which makes it both memorable and meaningful. A Gentle Lesson on Balance Another important message in I LOVE PIZZA! is moderation. While the book begins with an over-the-top love of pizza, it ends with a thoughtful reminder: too much of a good thing isn’t always best. “Maybe a little is better than a lot. In this way I won’t have to stop! Yes, there is a measure in all things… Just one slice of pizza and my heart sings!” For me, this ending was important. I wanted children to enjoy the silliness of loving pizza while also learning about balance and healthy choices. Life is full of wonderful things—pizza included!—but joy often comes from appreciating them in just the right amount. Celebrating Diversity with Pizza Since pizza is loved all over the world, it felt natural to create a multicultural version of I LOVE PIZZA! as well. Food is such a universal connector, and pizza especially is enjoyed in countless ways across different cultures. By offering this version, my hope was to celebrate diversity while showing children that joy, food, and friendship belong to everyone, everywhere. Why I Love Sharing This Book
When I share I LOVE PIZZA! with children, their eyes light up. They giggle at the silly rhymes, shout out their favorite toppings, and sometimes even sing along with the repetition. And when they hear the lessons about sharing and balance, they nod knowingly—as if they’ve discovered something important for themselves. That’s what I love about writing for children. Every story is an opportunity to bring joy, spark imagination, and leave behind a little wisdom. So the next time you’re enjoying a slice with your family, I hope you’ll also enjoy a few giggles from I LOVE PIZZA! Because just like pizza, a good story is meant to be shared. I Love Pizza! may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more. (Inspired by the children's book NO SMOKING, NO DRINKING, NO DRUGS by Sally Huss) Helping Kids Say No to Peer Pressure Every child, at some point, will face a moment of decision. A friend may whisper, “Come on, just try it.” A group might laugh and say, “Don’t be a baby.” This is peer pressure — the invisible tug that makes kids want to fit in, even if it means doing something they know is wrong. For parents and teachers, the big question is: How can we prepare children to stand strong in those moments? One effective way is through stories that let children “practice” difficult choices in the safety of their imagination. Sally Huss’s book No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs — also available in a multicultural version — gives children just that chance. By following Billy and his guide, Mr. Consequences, young readers see what it looks like to resist peer pressure and choose wisely. Peer Pressure: Why It’s So Powerful Children naturally want to belong. Being accepted by friends feels good, while being excluded feels scary. This is why peer pressure is so powerful. Even confident, happy children can feel torn when friends encourage them to make poor choices. The challenge is that peer pressure often happens in the moment — on the playground, after school, or at a party — and kids don’t have time to stop and think. That’s why preparation is key. By talking through scenarios in advance, and by letting children “see” examples in stories, we give them the tools to respond with confidence. Billy’s Story: A Choice at the Crossroads In No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs, young Billy walks home from school and stumbles upon a group of boys smoking and drinking. “Hey kid, take a puff,” they urge. For a split second, Billy is caught in the pressure of the group. Enter Mr. Consequences — a small mouse with big wisdom. He pulls Billy aside and shows him what’s really at stake. Through lively illustrations and powerful images — chimneys with smoke, Swiss cheese with holes, sick and unhappy people, and even glimpses of a wasted or bright future — Billy learns to see beyond the moment. By the end of the story, Billy has practiced saying no. He has learned that his health and happiness are worth protecting, and that good choices lead to a brighter future. Practical Lessons for Saying No What makes this book so effective is that it doesn’t just say “Don’t do drugs” or “Don’t smoke.” Instead, it gives children reasons to say no — and even more importantly, it gives them words to use. Here are some strategies parents and teachers can draw from the story:
Why the Multicultural Version Matters Children come from many different families, cultures, and communities. In the multicultural version of No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs, the message is clear: making good choices is universal. No matter who you are or where you come from, health and happiness depend on saying no to harmful habits. This inclusivity helps children see themselves in the story. When kids recognize characters who look like them, the lessons feel personal and powerful. It also opens the door for classrooms and families with diverse backgrounds to share the book together and know the message applies to everyone. Conversations Parents and Teachers Can Have Stories are just the starting point. The real magic happens in the conversations that follow. Here are a few questions and discussion prompts to use after reading:
Giving Kids the Tools to Choose Wisely One of the most powerful lines from Mr. Consequences is: “Everyone has the right to make their own choices — good or bad. Now you understand the importance of making good choices. Your happiness depends on it.” This shifts the focus from rules and restrictions to empowerment. Children don’t feel like they’re just following what adults say — they realize they have control over their own futures. They see that their happiness is in their hands, shaped by the choices they make every day. Why Stories Work Better Than Lectures Let’s be honest: children don’t usually respond well to lectures. “Don’t do this” and “Don’t do that” often go in one ear and out the other. Stories, on the other hand, spark the imagination. They let kids step into the shoes of characters like Billy and ask, “What would I do?” By experiencing the tug of peer pressure alongside Billy and then feeling the relief of making the right choice, children internalize the lesson in a way that sticks. It becomes their own story — not just something adults told them. A Universal Message of Health and Happiness At its heart, No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs is about more than just avoiding harmful substances. It’s about protecting health, nurturing happiness, and building a future full of possibility. It’s about giving children the confidence to stand tall, even when the crowd is pulling in another direction. Whether read at home with a parent, in a classroom with a teacher, or in a community program that celebrates diversity, the book delivers a message every child needs to hear: You have the power to say no. You have the right to choose health. Your future matters. Final Thoughts Peer pressure will always be part of growing up, but with preparation, guidance, and strong stories, children can face it with courage. No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs provides both the warnings and the hope, reminding children that their choices today shape their happiness tomorrow. With Mr. Consequences as their guide, kids learn that it’s not about being “cool” or “fitting in.” It’s about being true to themselves, protecting their health, and creating a future filled with joy and success. And that’s a lesson worth sharing with every child, in every culture. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs and many more of my children’s books, on Amazon through my website. Click here to visit my Children’s Books page (Inspired by the children's book NO SMOKING, NO DRINKING, NO DRUGS by Sally Huss) Whether it’s touching a hot stove, skipping homework, or following the wrong crowd, the results may not always be immediate — but they are real. As parents, grandparents, and teachers, we try to explain this in words, but sometimes words alone don’t sink in. That’s where stories come in. Stories make the abstract real. They take big ideas like “choices” and “consequences” and turn them into characters, images, and feelings that children can understand. One such story is No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs by Sally Huss, where a little boy named Billy meets an unusual guide — a mouse named Mr. Consequences. Why Consequences Are Hard for Kids to Understand Young children live in the present moment. They’re more focused on what feels fun, exciting, or comforting right now. Long-term effects don’t register easily. Telling a six- or seven-year-old that smoking could lead to lung cancer decades later won’t mean much to them. But showing them a mouse with a piece of Swiss cheese filled with holes — and explaining that bad choices can eat away at health and happiness — makes the idea memorable. In No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs, Mr. Consequences gently teaches Billy (and the reader) about how harmful habits like smoking, drinking, and drug use can damage the body and steal away happiness. The lessons are told with humor, imagination, and visuals kids can grasp. Mr. Consequences and the Power of Storytelling The story begins with Billy walking home from school and encountering a group of boys experimenting with smoking and drinking. They urge him to try, and for a moment, Billy is caught in the pull of peer pressure. Just then, a tiny but mighty guide appears: Mr. Consequences, a wise mouse who steps in to help. Mr. Consequences uses powerful images to explain his lessons:
Health and Happiness Go Hand in Hand One of the most powerful messages in the book is that health and happiness are deeply connected. When Mr. Consequences shows Billy sick and unhappy people who have lost their health, he explains: “When you lose your health, you lose your happiness too.” For children, this connection is important. They may not fully understand what it means to “damage your lungs” or “hurt your brain,” but they do understand happiness. Linking health habits directly to happiness gives them a clear reason to say no when temptations arise. Drugs, Doctors, and the Danger of Misuse The story also clears up confusion about drugs. Mr. Consequences explains that drugs have a place when used by doctors to help sick or injured people heal. But drugs found on the street are different. They damage health, hurt the brain, and rob young people of their potential. This is a vital distinction for children, who may hear the word “drugs” in different contexts. The story helps them see that while medicine can heal, street drugs harm. Everyone Has the Ability to Become Great Another uplifting message in the book is that every child has the ability to become great at something. Whether it’s sports, music, art, science, or kindness, every child has gifts and talents. But harmful habits like smoking, drinking, and drug use can block those gifts from shining. By showing Billy kids who look lazy, hopeless, and stuck, Mr. Consequences highlights the danger of wasted potential. Then, by showing Billy his own bright future, he reminds children that their happiness and success depend on the choices they make today. Practical Lessons for Parents and Teachers While No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs tells its story through charming characters and illustrations, it also provides a springboard for important conversations at home or in the classroom. Here are a few ways parents and teachers can use the book:
Why This Story Matters Today Children are facing pressures younger than ever before. Vaping, alcohol, and drugs are often portrayed as “cool” or “normal” in media. Peer influence can be strong, and children may not yet have the tools to resist. That’s why stories like No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs are so important. They give children not just information, but imagination — a way to picture both the dangers of bad choices and the rewards of good ones. A Message of Hope and Empowerment At the end of the story, Mr. Consequences reminds Billy: “Everyone has the right to make their own choices — good or bad. Now you understand the importance of making good choices. Your happiness depends on it.” Billy thanks him, now confident in his ability to choose wisely. He sees a future where he is healthy, happy, and successful. That’s the kind of vision every child deserves to hold onto. Final Thoughts Consequences may seem like a heavy topic for children, but when explained through stories, they become clear and meaningful. No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs offers children not just warnings, but hope — showing that their choices matter, their health matters, and their happiness matters. When children learn early that good choices lead to bright futures, they are far better equipped to resist pressures and live joyfully. Mr. Consequences is a delightful guide who reminds us all — young and old — that happiness is built one good choice at a time. The book, No Smoking, No Drinking, No Drugs, may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more. A Little Boy with a Big Lesson Every once in a while, a children’s story comes along that feels like it was written not just for kids, but for all of us. POSITIVE PETE is one of those stories. Pete isn’t the tallest boy in the class. He’s small. He’s got freckles, big ears, and glasses that keep slipping down his nose. But he also has something that makes him stand taller than anyone else around him—his attitude. Every morning, Pete starts his day the same way. He looks in the mirror and says: "I’m as perfect as I can be. Nothing can upset me, no, no, not me!" It’s a little chant, a happy mantra, and a promise to himself that no matter what happens, he will see the good in it. And Pete keeps that promise. When Spilled Milk Doesn’t Ruin Your Day The story begins at breakfast. Pete’s sister waves her hand, and—splat!—her glass of milk spills all over his eggs and ham. Most kids (and let’s be honest, most adults too) would pout, grumble, or push the soggy food away. But not Pete. "Delicious," he says with a grin, as he wipes the plate clean. Right away, young readers (and their parents) see the magic in Pete. He doesn’t let little accidents spoil his fun. Instead, he finds a way to smile through them. From Traffic Jams to Tumbles Pete carries this cheerful spirit with him everywhere. A traffic jam on the way to school? No problem. A tough grade in class? He’ll do better next time. A tumble on the playground that leaves his knee scraped and sore? He calls it just another chance to get back up. Pete’s optimism isn’t loud or boastful. It’s quiet, steady, and contagious. Children reading his story can’t help but wonder: If Pete can stay happy through all that, maybe I can too. A Heart Bigger Than His Size One of the most touching moments in POSITIVE PETE comes when a classmate teases him for being so small. "Why are you so small? You seem to be the smallest of us all." Instead of shrinking back, Pete smiles. He explains that size doesn’t measure greatness—heart does. His words carry a wisdom that shines far beyond the playground: "It’s the heart that has a special task-- That is to overcome any difficulty that comes my way By seeing it in a different way." What a powerful lesson for children! Pete teaches that confidence doesn’t come from how you look, but from how you think. Moving Day with No Tears As the story continues, Pete faces one of the hardest challenges of all—his family has to move because his father lost his job. For most kids, moving means tears, fear, and goodbyes that sting. But Pete? He doesn’t shed a tear. Instead, he leans on his morning promise: "Yep, life is perfect as it can be. Nothing can upset me, no, no, not me!" What might have been a sad ending becomes a celebration of resilience. Pete reminds us that every change is a new adventure waiting to happen. Why Kids Need Pete’s Example POSITIVE PETE is more than a charming rhyming tale—it’s a toolkit for kids. Here’s what children (and parents) can take away:
Bringing Pete into Everyday Life Children don’t just learn from books—they learn from practice. Here are a few ways families can bring Pete’s positive spirit into daily life:
eWhy Stories Like This Matter The world can be a confusing, sometimes overwhelming place for children. They face pressures at school, social comparisons, and unexpected changes at home. Books like POSITIVE PETE remind them that they have the power to control their outlook, even when they can’t control their circumstances. Pete isn’t a superhero. He doesn’t fly, fight dragons, or wield magic spells. Instead, his superpower is one every child already has within them—the ability to think differently. That makes his story not only relatable but also deeply empowering. Final Thought: Pete’s Promise At the heart of POSITIVE PETE is a simple truth: happiness doesn’t come from having perfect days. It comes from deciding to see the good, no matter what happens. When children repeat Pete’s chant-- "I’m as perfect as I can be. Nothing can upset me, no, no, not me!" —they aren’t just reciting words. They’re planting seeds of resilience, optimism, and joy. Seeds that can grow into a lifetime of strength and positivity. And that’s the beauty of Pete’s story. He may be small, but his lesson is larger than life. This book, Positive Pete, may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more. (Inspired by the children's book HELPFUL HENRY by Sally Huss) Kindness is one of the most important qualities we can nurture in our children. It is a value that not only benefits others but also strengthens a child’s own sense of happiness, self-worth, and belonging. In fact, studies show that children who engage in kind and compassionate behaviors are more likely to feel connected, confident, and less anxious. But how do we actually encourage kindness in children, especially in a world where distractions are everywhere? The good news is that kindness can be taught—and it often begins with small steps. 1. Model Kindness Daily Children are always watching. If they see you holding the door for someone, greeting a neighbor with warmth, or offering a helping hand, they learn that kindness is part of everyday life. Even small actions, such as thanking the grocery clerk or sending a quick note of encouragement to a friend, become living lessons for your child. 2. Catch Kindness in Action When your child does something thoughtful—shares a toy, offers to help, or comforts a friend—acknowledge it. A simple, “That was kind of you” reinforces the behavior. Over time, kindness becomes part of their identity: I am someone who helps and cares for others. 3. Create Opportunities for Kindness Kindness grows when it has room to blossom. Provide opportunities: let your child draw a cheerful picture for a grandparent, help bake cookies for a neighbor, or donate gently used toys to children in need. These acts not only help others but also allow children to feel the joy of giving. 4. Teach Empathy Through Stories Stories have the power to shape hearts. Reading books that highlight kindness, compassion, and helping behaviors gives children role models to look up to. In my children’s book Helpful Henry, Henry discovers how lending a hand can make a difference—not just for others, but for himself. He finds that helping fills his heart with joy. Children quickly connect with Henry’s cheerful spirit and begin to see kindness as fun and rewarding. 5. Practice Gratitude Together Kindness and gratitude go hand in hand. At bedtime, try sharing one kind thing you each did during the day. This gentle reflection helps children recognize the importance of their actions and encourages them to repeat them. 6. Make Kindness a Family Value Talk about kindness openly. Create a family “kindness jar,” where each member writes down kind things they notice about one another. At the end of the week, read them together. This practice creates a culture of positivity at home, where kindness is both noticed and celebrated. Final Thought Encouraging kindness doesn’t require big gestures. It’s the small, consistent acts—smiles, words of encouragement, little helps—that shape a child’s character. And when children see that kindness brings happiness, they will carry that lesson throughout their lives. Helpful Henry is a reminder that helping others is not a chore but a joy. With stories, examples, and encouragement, we can all raise children who make the world a kinder place—one small act at a time. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find Helpful Henry, and many more of my children’s books, on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page. (Inspired by the books Self-Confident Sandy and The Trick to Being Fearless by Sally Huss) The Power of Positive Mantras for Kids Words have magic. The things we say to ourselves can lift us up—or pull us down. For children, learning to use words as tools for encouragement is one of the best ways to build self-esteem. That’s where positive mantras come in! In my story Self-Confident Sandy, Sandy has a mantra she repeats with joy: “Sandy, Sandy, Self-Confident Sandy… Always keeps her mantra handy!” It’s catchy, it’s fun, and most importantly—it helps Sandy believe in herself. But Sandy isn’t the only one who learns the power of words. In another story, The Trick to Being Fearless, a young boy discovers that his own thoughts can chase away fear. Instead of letting worries overwhelm him, he learns to use brave, strong thoughts that calm his heart and lift his courage. Together, these two stories show children how their words and thoughts can shape the way they see themselves and the world. What Is a Mantra? A mantra is a short, powerful phrase we say over and over. It’s like planting seeds in the mind. Over time, these words grow into beliefs, and beliefs shape actions. For children, mantras can become inner cheerleaders that whisper: “You are brave.” “You are kind.” “You can do this.” Why Do Kids Need Mantras?Children face many challenges—making friends, trying new activities, or speaking up in class. Having a mantra gives them an anchor when they feel nervous or uncertain. It helps them pause, breathe, and remember their inner strength. In The Trick to Being Fearless, the little boy faces fear head-on by learning to choose thoughts that give him courage. Whether it’s Sandy’s cheerful rhyme or the boy’s fearless thinking, the message is the same: children can guide their emotions through the words they repeat inside. How to Teach Your Child a Mantra
Examples of Mantras for Kids
Words and Thoughts Work Together Mantras are one way to strengthen confidence. The Trick to Being Fearless shows another: teaching children how to shift their thoughts when fear creeps in. When kids learn that they can guide both their words (through mantras) and their thoughts (through fearless thinking), they gain a powerful toolkit for facing life with courage. Sandy chants her mantra, and the boy in The Trick to Being Fearless shifts his thoughts. Both stories reveal the same truth: children have the power to guide their feelings through the words and ideas they carry inside. By teaching our children this “inner language,” we give them tools not just for today, but for a lifetime of confidence and courage. If you’d like to share these stories with a child you love, you’ll find Self-Confident Sandy and The Trick to Being Fearless, and many more of my children’s books, on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page. |
Sally Huss
I'm an author/illustrator of many children's books, over 100. I've also had 26 of my own licensed art galleries across the country and filled them with my art and happy thoughts. Those thoughts became the basis of my King Features syndicated newspaper panel -- Happy Musings. In this blog, you will find themes on health and happiness, tennis and pickleball, love and life -- all to inform you and brighten your day. Archives
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