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(Inspired by the children's book Self-Confident Sandy by Sally Huss and Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino) Have you ever noticed how some children seem to walk into a room with their heads high, eyes bright, and smiles shining? They greet the world with a sense of “I can do this!” That spark is called self-confidence, and it’s one of the greatest gifts we can give our children. In my children’s book Self-Confident Sandy, Sandy repeats her cheerful mantra: “Sandy, Sandy, Self-Confident Sandy… Always keeps her mantra handy!” This playful rhyme holds a powerful truth: confidence is built little by little, word by word, and action by action. As parents, we have the tools to help our children believe in themselves. Here are a few tips for raising a self-confident child. 1. Celebrate Effort, Not Just Achievement Children need to know that trying matters just as much as succeeding. When your child attempts something new, cheer their bravery. Say things like:
2. Model Self-Confidence Yourself Children are like little mirrors. If they see you handling challenges with a positive attitude, they’ll learn to do the same. Show them how you talk kindly to yourself, even when you make mistakes. Say:
3. Encourage Independence Confidence blossoms when children can do things on their own. Let them help with cooking, dressing, or solving small problems. Even if it takes longer or isn’t perfect, the pride they feel is worth it. 4. Use Positive Mantras A mantra is a simple phrase a child can repeat to feel strong. Sandy has hers, and your child can have one too! Help your child come up with their own mantra, such as:
5. Provide Opportunities for Success Give children tasks that are just right for their age—challenging enough to stretch them, but not so hard that they feel defeated. Success builds confidence, step by step. 6. Listen Deeply Sometimes, all a child needs is to feel heard. When children know their feelings matter, they feel more secure in themselves. Sit with them, look in their eyes, and let them know: “Your voice is important.” Self-confidence is not about being the loudest in the room; it’s about having a steady belief inside: “I can do this.” That’s the gift Sandy reminds us of in her story. And it’s the gift you can give your child, too. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find Self-Confident Sandy, and many more of my children’s books, on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page.
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(Inspired by the children's book Let's Everybody Fish by Sally Huss) Children are natural explorers. They love to discover, try new things, and sometimes, do everything their own way. Independence is wonderful, but so is teamwork. Knowing how to work with others is one of life’s greatest skills — and it begins in childhood. So, how do we teach children the value of teamwork? The answer is often simpler than we think. Teamwork is best learned through play, story, and real-life experiences. When children feel the joy of joining forces with others, the lesson stays with them for a lifetime. 1. Why Teamwork Matters for Kids Teamwork is not just about “getting along.” It’s about:
2. Teach Through Play Children learn best when they don’t realize they’re learning. Group activities such as:
Tip: Praise the effort, not just the outcome. Say things like, “I love how you worked as a team to finish that puzzle!” 3. Teach Through Everyday Moments Opportunities for teamwork are everywhere:
4. Teach Through Storytelling Children’s books are wonderful tools for teaching teamwork. That’s why I wrote Let’s Everybody Fish! — a whimsical story about filling a pot with fish through cooperation. In the book, each character plays a part. Some catch, some carry, some cook. Together, they accomplish something none could do alone. The rhyme and rhythm make the lesson playful, but the underlying message is clear: When we work together, we all win. Stories allow children to imagine teamwork in action — and then apply it to their own lives. 5. Model Teamwork Yourself Children learn most from what they see. When parents, grandparents, and teachers demonstrate cooperation, kids pick it up.
6. Reinforce with Encouragement Encouragement builds motivation. When children experience success through teamwork, highlight it.
7. Remember: Teamwork Creates Belonging Ultimately, teamwork is not just about productivity. It’s about belonging. Children who feel part of a group develop stronger self-esteem and deeper empathy for others. When kids understand that their contributions matter — and that together they can achieve more — they feel valued. That sense of belonging nurtures happiness, which is the greatest gift of all. Final Thought Teaching teamwork isn’t about lectures or rules. It’s about lived experiences, joyful play, meaningful stories, and real-life examples. When children see the magic of working together, they carry that wisdom into every corner of life. And if you’d like a playful way to introduce teamwork, consider reading Let’s Everybody Fish! with your child. Its rhyme, humor, and cheerful characters make the lesson of cooperation unforgettable. After all, when “everybody fishes,” the pot fills up — and so do our hearts. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find Let’s Everybody Fish! (and many more of my children’s books) on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page. (Inspired by the children's book One Green Omelet, Please! by Sally Huss Snacks are a big part of childhood. Between meals, after school, or during sports practice, kids are always hungry for something quick and tasty. But here’s the challenge: many snack foods marketed to children are high in sugar, salt, or empty calories. As parents and grandparents, we want snacks that fuel little bodies and bring smiles to little faces. The good news? Healthy snacks don’t have to be boring. With a dash of creativity and a sprinkle of fun, they can be just as exciting as cookies or chips — and far better for growing minds and bodies. 1. Make Snacks Colorful Children eat with their eyes first. Bright colors make food more appealing. Create a rainbow plate:
2. Turn Snacks Into Shapes Play with food design. Kids love surprises on their plates:
3. Pair Familiar With New Snack time is a great chance to introduce variety. Pair something new with a familiar favorite:
4. Involve Kids in Snack Prep When kids make their own snacks, they feel proud — and more likely to eat them. Let them:
5. Keep Snacks Portable Healthy doesn’t mean complicated. Some grab-and-go options include:
6. Make It a Story Food becomes magical when you tell a story. That’s what happens in my book One Green Omelet, Please! A little girl discovers all the wonderful ingredients that go into her meal — eggs from chickens, beans from the garden, cheese from milk. You can do the same with snacks. Talk about where blueberries come from, or how almonds grow on trees. When children feel connected to their food, they eat with curiosity instead of resistance. 7. Balance Sweet and Savory Kids love sweet treats, but balance is key. Healthy options can satisfy a sweet tooth without loads of sugar:
8. Keep It Positive Above all, snack time should feel joyful, not stressful. Avoid using snacks as bribes or rewards. Instead, make them part of family fun. Sit together, laugh, and share stories. Healthy eating is less about rules and more about creating positive associations. When kids see snacks as colorful, playful, and delicious, they’ll carry those habits into adulthood. Final Thought Healthy snacks don’t need to be complicated. With a little imagination, everyday foods become tasty adventures. Remember: kids who feel involved in preparing and celebrating food are the ones who grow up enjoying it. And if you’d like a playful way to spark your child’s curiosity about what goes into their meals, try reading One Green Omelet, Please! together. It’s a whimsical reminder that food can be joyful, colorful, and full of surprises — just like snack time should be. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find One Green Omelet, Please! (and many more of my children’s books) on Amazon through my website. Simply click [here] to visit my Children’s Books page. (Inspired by the children's book One Green Omelet, Please! by Sally Huss) Every parent has faced it: your child looks at a plate of broccoli as if it’s the enemy. A pea rolls across the table, untouched. Carrots? Forget it. For many families, picky eating is a daily challenge — one that tests patience, creativity, and sometimes even sanity. But here’s the good news: picky eating doesn’t have to be a battle. With a little imagination, patience, and fun, you can help children open up to new flavors and healthier eating habits. 1. Make Food a Story Children love stories — and stories are powerful teachers. Instead of just saying, “Eat your vegetables,” tell the tale behind the food.
2. Invite Kids Into the Kitchen Kids are far more likely to try food they helped prepare. Give them simple tasks like:
3. Use the “One Bite Rule” The “one bite rule” is a gentle, pressure-free way to encourage trying new foods. Instead of insisting they finish their plate, simply say: “Just take one bite, and then you can decide.” Often, once kids taste something, they realize it’s not so scary. And if they don’t like it? That’s okay — you’ve planted a seed for next time. 4. Play With Presentation Food doesn’t have to be boring. Make meals fun:
5. Pair New With Familiar Introduce new foods alongside something your child already loves.
6. Grow Something Together There’s something magical about growing your own food. Even a small pot of herbs on the windowsill can spark excitement. When kids water, nurture, and finally taste something they grew, they beam with pride — and are more likely to eat it. 7. Keep Mealtimes Positive Avoid turning food into a battle. Pressure, bribery, or scolding often backfires. Instead, focus on creating a warm, happy atmosphere.
8. Read About Food Together Books are wonderful tools for introducing new ideas. One Green Omelet, Please! takes children on a playful journey through the ingredients of a simple dish. By seeing food celebrated in rhyme and pictures, kids feel inspired to explore what’s on their plate. When a child reads about peas, string beans, and eggs in a happy, silly context, those foods stop feeling strange — and start feeling like friends. Final Thought Picky eating may feel like a mountain, but with stories, creativity, and patience, it becomes a journey of discovery. Every bite a child takes — even if small — is a victory. So the next time your child says “no” to something green, try turning it into a story, a game, or a colorful creation. And if you want a little help sparking curiosity, open the pages of One Green Omelet, Please! Sometimes a playful rhyme and a cheerful picture are the best seasoning of all. If you’d like to share this story with a child you love, you’ll find One Green Omelet, Please! (and many more of my children’s books) on Amazon through my website. Simply click [here] to visit my Children’s Books page. May these stories bring joy, imagination, and kindness into your home! Every once in a while, a children’s story pops up that feels like it might have floated straight from the playful mind of Dr. Seuss. Let’s Everybody Fish! is one of those stories. Written all in rhyme, with whimsical characters and a rollicking rhythm, this book makes kids giggle while teaching a lesson they’ll carry with them forever: anything can be accomplished when we work together as one. A Shore Full of Fishing Friends The story begins on the edge of the ocean, where a lively group of fishing folks gathers to solve a problem: how can they catch enough fish to fill their great pot for their beloved fish dish? Each fisher offers to catch a certain number of fish:
The result? A delightful counting game, a rhythmic rhyme, and a story that makes children laugh while showing them the power of cooperation. The Big Surprise But here’s the twist — after all their planning, the fishing begins. And instead of one fish, or two, or even three… they land a giant fish! Together, they cook that enormous catch, dance a fishmonger’s jig, and declare it the very best fishing day of all. The Big Lesson The joy of this story isn’t just in the rhyme or the silly fishermen (though that’s plenty of fun). The joy lies in the lesson:
A Perfect Book for Early Readers The rhyming text, repetition, and counting elements make Let’s Everybody Fish! ideal for:
Why Parents and Teachers Love It Parents appreciate stories that entertain while reinforcing values. Teachers love books that can spark group activities, discussions, or even a little math practice. This story offers all three. Most importantly, children love it because it’s fun. They laugh at the silly rhymes, join in the counting, and cheer when the group finally pulls in their giant fish. A Happy Ending
The final message ties everything together: Anything can be accomplished when working together as one. And isn’t that a lesson every child (and every adult) could use more of? “Who Needs Teeth?” is one of those books that makes children giggle while sneaking in a very big message. Teeth are important—oh yes, they are! This charming, rhyming picture book takes little readers on a delightful journey to discover why we need them, why animals need them, and how caring for them makes life so much happier. A Funny Way to Learn a Serious Lesson The story begins with a little girl who wonders what life would be like if we didn’t have teeth. She looks around and notices the animals in her world.
What About You? After exploring the animal world, the story turns the question toward the reader. What if you had no teeth? No apple crunch. No cinnamon bun. No cheese, no peas, no birthday cake. No bananas, no Thanksgiving turkey. And what about smiling? Without teeth, you might not want to smile at all! Children can easily see the connection: our teeth are not just for eating, they’re for showing joy, sharing happiness, and feeling confident. A Loving Reminder The book gently explains that teeth are like people—they like to be loved and cared for. They work so hard for us every day, and they ask for only a little in return: brushing, flossing, and regular visits to the dentist. The rhyming text and cheerful illustrations make this reminder memorable. The message is never heavy-handed, but instead lighthearted and empowering. Kids finish the story feeling proud of their teeth and ready to take care of them. Why Children Love It Children respond with laughter to the silly animal examples and delight in imagining what foods they wouldn’t want to miss out on. Parents and teachers love the story because it makes dental health—a subject that can be a struggle—fun and approachable. It’s not just a story, it’s a way to encourage healthy habits in a joyful way. Why Parents and Teachers Appreciate It This book works well for parents teaching dental hygiene at home, and it’s a natural fit for classrooms, libraries, or even pediatric dental offices. It opens the door to conversations about daily brushing, eating healthy foods, and protecting that precious smile. And just like all of Sally Huss’s children’s books, this one is filled with warmth, humor, and happiness. A Multicultural Version, Too “Who Needs Teeth?” is also available in a multicultural version, so all children can see themselves smiling back in its pages. Because after all, every child deserves to know that a happy face begins with a happy smile—and a happy smile is filled with happy, healthy teeth! A Happy Conclusion This adorable book leaves children with one big, joyful takeaway:
This book may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more. Introduction Some stories make us laugh. Others make us think. And then there are a few rare ones that do both at the same time. Jim Duncan Needs Help is just such a story. Based on a classic Sufi tale, this book is filled with humor, rhyme, and silly situations that children will love—while carrying a big, timeless message that parents and teachers will appreciate. The story reminds us that even when life feels overwhelming, our perspective can change everything. By the end, both Jim Duncan and the reader discover that attitude is the secret to happiness. Now, let’s step into Jim’s noisy, crowded, and oh-so-funny world… Jim Duncan knew the value of fathers. Fathers are valuable. Fathers are good. Fathers always do what they know they should. Fathers know the best road to take. They know what is right. They won't make a mistake. That's why when a problem came up Jim Duncan called on his father to help clear things up. "I live in a house with five noisy, small kids And a wife who can't find the pots and their lids. The place is a mess a disaster," Jim said, "I can't even find a chair or a bed. We are crammed and jammed. It's all quite a ruckus. Can you help me out of this ruckus that's among us?" "Ah," said his wise and thoughtful father, Put your cat inside and try not to bother. Than come back tomorrow and tell me how it goes. I'm sure things will improve; these are things a father knows." Being a kind and dutiful son Jim did what his father said should be done. "The cat is not bad," said Jim the next day. "But nothing has improved, I really must say." "No problem," said his father with a great deal of glee. "Put your dog inside and see what you'll see. Then come back tomorrow and report to me." "The dog," said Jim, "was a pest at best And put the cat to a real scampering test By chasing it from one end of the house to the other" "No problem," said Jim's father "Try not to bother." Chickens were next. Jim's father was sure they would aid, But all over the house Jim found dozens of eggs that had been laid. What could possibly be worse, thought Jim? Yet he trusted his father and did what he told him. "Now," said his wise and thoughtful father, "Put your pig inside and try not to bother." A pig inside, well what could that do? At least it was one, much better than two. Being a kind and dutiful son Jim did what his father said should be done. When he complained to his father that things had gotten worse His father told him to put another inside, this time a horse! The horse whinnied, the pig squealed, the chickens clucked. The whole household was truly running amuck. "You're getting closer to solving your problem," said Jim's father. "Put your cow inside and try not to bother." But bother he did, as did his wife and each kid. What more could he do? He hoped they were through. He was at the end of his tether. His nerves were a wreck. It was then that his father said, "Add a goat and don't fret." Again, he trusted his wise and thoughtful father And put a goat inside and tried not to bother. "Now," said his father, "There is something more you must do." Oh, no, thought Jim, he must not be through. "Take the cow back out of the house and tell me what you find. Jim removed the cow. This did ease his mind. "Better," he told his trusted father. "Things are better for sure. Things are almost livable. I think we're finding a cure." But his father continued, "Now remove the goat on the next day, Then come and tell me what news you have to say." "Much better, " said Jim, "Better than I could have possibly dreamed." Then he was asked to take the horse out and see how that seemed. "Much, much better," Jim announced, as he shoved the horse away. Then he boldly asked if the pig had to stay. "No, take the pig out and see what that does." Without the pig, Jim could hardly remember how awful it was. "Better still," he told his wise and thoughtful father. "The cat, the dog, and chickens won't be a bother." But his father wanted to make sure that the lesson was not lost, So, he said that the cat and chickens and dog should be tossed. Out the door they all went, all a flutter. "Aaaah, this is heaven," you could hear Jim utter. Yes, a father is a very wise and valuable being. Perfection, Jim found, is all in the way that you're seeing! And what did Jim's father say to Jim when it was all done? "Attitude is everything! Pick a good one, my son! The Lesson Behind the Laughter Children will giggle as animals pile into Jim’s crowded house—first a cat, then a dog, then chickens, a pig, a horse, and more! But underneath the silliness lies a big truth: Life is not always about what happens around us. It’s about how we see it. Jim thinks his home is impossible—until it gets much worse. Only when his father shows him how to remove the animals does Jim realize that what felt terrible before is actually tolerable—even joyful. This is a powerful lesson for children:
Why This Tale Matters for Families and Classrooms Stories like Jim Duncan Needs Help do more than entertain. They open the door for family conversations:
Closing Thoughts With its rhymes, humor, and delightful illustrations, Jim Duncan Needs Help is a joy to read aloud. Kids will laugh at the chaos, parents will nod at the wisdom, and everyone will leave with a smile—and a little reminder to choose a good attitude. Sometimes the simplest stories carry the biggest truths. This book may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more.
Sandy, Sandy, Self-Confident Sandy… Always keeps her mantra handy.” That’s how this story begins, with a bright and bold little girl who has something important to share with her classmates — and with us. When her teacher asks the class to introduce themselves, Sandy doesn’t hesitate. She stands tall, smiles wide, and rattles off her mantra and all the wonderful things she can do: She can run around a track, hike, bake a cake, prepare dinner, help a friend rake leaves, paint, play baseball, read, dance, sing, and always remember to give thanks. She is confident not because she’s perfect, but because she tries, she learns, and she celebrates who she is. Her classmates are stunned. How can Sandy do so much? How can she believe in herself so completely? Sandy answers simply: “Some may wonder why I can do anything I try, and the only answer can be: all these things are inside me.” What Self-Confident Sandy Teaches Children This uplifting story, written in rhyme by Sally Huss in conjunction with Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino, the creator of Best Ever You Network, is more than just a delightful read. It is a gentle but powerful guide for children to:
The Power of a Mantra Sandy’s mantra is short, sweet, and strong. It reminds her of her abilities and her inner spark. Just as athletes, leaders, and artists use mantras to focus and motivate themselves, children can benefit from a personal phrase that reminds them of their own value. Reading Sandy’s story, children are encouraged to come up with a list of things they can do — big or small — and recognize their own unique talents. From tying shoes to drawing, from sharing with a sibling to scoring a goal, confidence grows with every attempt. A Classroom Conversation Starter Teachers will love this book as much as parents. Sandy’s story provides a wonderful classroom activity:
Becoming the “Best Ever You” Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino’s Best Ever You movement inspires people of all ages to live authentically and confidently. In Self-Confident Sandy, that message is brought to life for children. By trying, doing, and appreciating themselves, kids discover that they can be the Best Ever Me — and encourage others to be the Best Ever You. Why This Book Matters In a world where children are often bombarded with comparisons, evaluations, and pressures, Self-Confident Sandy provides a refreshing message: You don’t have to be the best at everything. You just need to be the best version of yourself. Confidence, gratitude, kindness, and joy are the true building blocks of success — and this book helps children embrace them from the start. Closing Thought As Sandy says: “By trying and doing, that’s how I can be the Best Ever Me. You can do it too. You can be the Best Ever YOU.” This book may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more.
“I’m here to help,” said Henry, as he jumped out of bed. Each and every morning, that’s what he said. With those words, Helpful Henry begins. And from that very first line, children are drawn into Henry’s world—a world where kindness, helpfulness, and courage make every day brighter. This lively, rhyming children’s book overflows with charm and joy. With cheerful, multicultural illustrations and a message every parent and teacher dreams of instilling, Helpful Henry is the perfect reminder that helping others is not only good—it feels good, too. A Day in the Life of Helpful Henry Henry is a little boy with a big heart. From the moment he gets out of bed, he looks for ways to lend a hand.
Henry’s motto sums it up perfectly: “I like to be helpful, it makes me feel good. Today was a good day. I helped where I could.” What Children Learn from Helpful Henry This story is more than rhymes and illustrations—it’s a roadmap for kindness. Children will learn:
Why Parents and Teachers Love This Book
A Story That Inspires At its heart, Helpful Henry is about more than chores or tasks. It’s about character. It’s about helping young readers discover their own compass—the inner voice that points them toward kindness, courage, and goodness. Every child has the potential to be a “Helpful Henry.” This story gives them a shining example, wrapped in rhyme and delight, to help them see just how much difference they can make. And like Henry, they may discover that the more you help, the happier you feel. A Book for Every Child’s Shelf
Fun. Lively. Inspiring. Helpful Henry is a book that parents, grandparents, and teachers will return to again and again. Whether read at bedtime, in the classroom, or during story time, it carries a message that grows stronger with every reading: Helping is not only good—it’s noble. It’s courageous. And it makes the world a little brighter for everyone. This book may be found on Amazon through my website. Simply click here to visit my Children’s Books page and explore this story along with many more. Some books simply arrive like a gift—words flowing as if they had been waiting patiently for the right moment. The Princess in My Teacup is one of those books for me. Written over ten years ago, it remains one of the dearest to my heart. Why? Because it captures the magic of childhood imagination, the power of rhyming word play, and the beauty of illustrations that dance with joy. But most of all, it carries a timeless message: within every child is the spark of kindness, generosity, and gratitude—just waiting to be discovered. A Magical Story with a Gentle Lesson At its heart, The Princess in My Teacup tells the story of a little girl who, quite unexpectedly, sees a tiny princess floating in her teacup while sharing cookies with her cousin. She wonders why this princess has chosen her—after all, she considers herself just an ordinary girl. But the princess doesn’t just appear once. She pops up again at lunch, then again in a bowl of soup! Each time, the little girl begins to wonder what the princess wants from her. Finally, she asks, “What can I do for you?” The answer is simple yet profound: be more helpful. From there, the little girl begins to notice opportunities to make a difference. While washing dishes, the princess appears again and reminds her to be more grateful. Another time, she encourages the girl to make friends with someone who doesn’t have one. At each moment, the little girl’s world grows a little brighter as she learns the joy of kindness, helpfulness, and gratitude. And then comes the delightful twist—the realization that the princess in her teacup, in her soup, and in her imagination… was inside her all along. “The princess in my cup of tea… was the princess in me!” Planting Seeds of Character in a Child’s Heart One of the greatest joys of writing children’s books is knowing that a story can plant seeds of goodness in a young heart. The Princess in My Teacup gently introduces children to the values of:
Why Children Love This Book
A Story for All Families The Princess in My Teacup is also available in a multicultural version, making it a story every child can see themselves in. No matter a child’s background, the message remains the same: kindness and helpfulness are treasures we all carry within. A Book That Lasts a Lifetime
As parents, grandparents, or teachers, we are always looking for stories that last—stories that children will not only enjoy today but remember years from now. This is one of those books. A simple cup of tea becomes the doorway to self-discovery. A little princess becomes the voice of a child’s higher self. And with every turn of the page, children are reminded that they already have everything they need to be kind, loving, and helpful. Sometimes, all it takes is a princess in a teacup to help them see it. This book may be found on Amazon through my website. |
Sally Huss
I'm an author/illustrator of many children's books, over 100. I've also had 26 of my own licensed art galleries across the country and filled them with my art and happy thoughts. Those thoughts became the basis of my King Features syndicated newspaper panel -- Happy Musings. In this blog, you will find themes on health and happiness, tennis and pickleball, love and life -- all to inform you and brighten your day. Archives
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